What do parents of young children do on a Friday night? The same thing they do every other night. Occassionally however, they get to go out, enjoy some time without the kids, and have a little fun. It's important for parents to get some time away from their children. Not only is it healthy for the parents, but also for the children. Children learn to be able to trust someone other than Mom and Dad, and that can be a step of confidence for them. Meanwhile, when the parents get to relax, they become reenergized and rejuvenated, making them more patient and understanding (if only for a short time).
Here's the rub. If parents don't have a close and reliable support system it can make this a lot more difficult. It can be trying to find a reliable and trustworthy babysitter.
If you're a parent and you have a wonderful support system, make sure you appreciate just how great they are. If you're a parent and you don't have a good support system, take heart! I know it can be frustrating to get someone to watch the kids. Don't be afraid to ask other parents you know who they use for babysitting. Also many hospitals offer babysitting training services and may be able to direct you to someone who can help.
No matter the circumstances, it is important for parents to have some time to themselves and NOT to feel guilty about it.
Enjoy your weekend!
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